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Life

October Days

Autumn is my favorite time of year, and I’ve started trying to plan my work so that I have light duty in October. For a long time, I seemed to be in a pattern of writing a first draft in October, which meant that I was in all-or-nothing mode and not doing much else other than writing, and then I’d finish the draft and emerge from my writing cave to realize that the best part of the year had passed without me noticing it. It wasn’t so bad in Texas, since fall usually came in random days during October, and it finally felt like fall around Thanksgiving. Now that I’ve moved, October feels like October should (mostly), and after my first year here, when I was drafting a book during October, I’ve made an effort to break the pattern.

I suspect that a lot of this pattern comes from that “back to school” mentality in September. That’s when I tend to start writing a new series. I do the research and pre-writing work in September, then start drafting in October, and once you sell a book and start that pattern, your deadlines usually line up for the same time every year.

Oddly, as much as October is my favorite time of year, I’m not a huge fan of Halloween. I’m not opposed to it. I find aspects of it amusing. It’s fun to see kids in costumes or see the yard decorations. I just mostly lost interest in observing it myself once I aged out of trick-or-treating. I’m not fond of adult Halloween parties, and I don’t like scary things, so I don’t do Halloween activities like watching scary movies.

A tree that's still partly green, but vividly red around the edges.
It’s beginning to look a lot like autumn.

What I do like is being outdoors. This is the perfect time of year for it, not too hot (well, except for some days this year) and not too cold (except for some days this year). I like the colorful leaves, apple cider, baked goods with cinnamon and other spices, soup, sweaters, and all things cozy. It’s a good time for hiking or just walking around town. The past couple of days, I’ve walked over to the park to go to the Friends of the Library book sale in the park gym, which meant looking at the trees along the way and generally enjoying being outdoors, then obtaining as many books as I could carry. Yesterday, I took a picnic lunch to eat in the park and hung out for a while, doing some writing work, before I walked home with my book haul. The only thing that would have made it better would have been if it was a bit cooler, the kind of day where you want to make some hot tea when you get home. Instead, I was sweating and needed lots of cool water.

This has been a weird fall, weather-wise. We seemed to go straight from summer to November, then back to summer, and we haven’t a lot of days that were properly October. Now we have a chance of a freeze this weekend, and we haven’t yet really had just a regular fall day. My outdoor plants are still blooming, and I still have tomatoes, so I guess I’ll cover the plants overnight. The trees are still just starting to turn. Next week will probably be the best time to hit the Blue Ridge Parkway to see the mountains in full color. Maybe we’ll get a proper fall day, when it’s nippy in the morning, crisp and cool in the afternoon, warm enough to be out and about with a sweater on, but you want a cup of hot tea when you come home.

When/if that happens, I’ll be ready to take the day to enjoy it, since I’m not writing a first draft right now.

 

 

Life

Planning a Real Staycation

As I continue to recover from my vacation, I’ve been thinking more about how I’d go about making a vacation that I don’t need a vacation to recover from, and the solution may be a “staycation,” taking a break without going anywhere. Then I can get good sleep because I’m sleeping in my own bed and I don’t get tired from the return trip. But the trick is to make it different enough that it feels like a real vacation and not just being at home with more goofing off. This will take some strategy.

For one thing, it would take some prep work. The house would need to be clean enough that I wouldn’t feel like I should be doing housework, so the staycation would be preceded by a day or so of good cleaning. I’d also want to prepare some food in advance. I might go out for breakfast one or two days (since we do have some good breakfast spots I’ve been wanting to try), but I might make some waffles to throw into the toaster and have a pretend hotel breakfast buffet, and I’d want some ingredients for a lunch to pack for a picnic, maybe some special treats to enjoy in the evening.

Then it would take planning and even scheduling to make sure I do stuff instead of just hanging around and goofing off. Fortunately, I live in a tourist attraction kind of place, so it’s very easy to play tourist locally just by walking around town. There’s even more stuff to see within an hour of driving. I think on my hypothetical vacation, I’d start with a day trip so that coming home could feel like checking into a hotel (I might even put a chocolate on my pillow and fold the toilet paper end into a little triangle). Then walk downtown to go out to dinner. The next day would be an active day, taking a picnic and going on a hike in the park or doing some kind of local sightseeing, with a relaxing evening. I’d try to schedule the relaxation to make sure I do it — actually watch the movie or read the book and do the spa treatments. Maybe a less intense day of just sitting on the deck or porch and reading. And then a short day trip to give the sense of leaving and coming back home with the “hotel” becoming a house once more, but with a relaxing evening to unwind from the whole thing. I might try limiting online time so I can do things that are fun but not get into the mindset of work.

I’ll have to see where I can fit that in this fall, since I’ve scheduled for a light month and I’ll be wanting to hit the usual places to see the autumn colors. One of my day trips can be heading into the mountains, then there’s a park nearby with interesting rock formations that I’ve been wanting to visit. I’ll just need to find a stretch of time with the right weather for it. I want to try to do several consecutive days instead of grabbing a day here and there so that I can properly unwind. I’ve read research that says it takes about three days of a change of the usual pace before you actually start to reset.

Of course, I can’t really turn my brain off. It’ll be playing with story ideas, but that’s part of what I do for fun. I’d probably come out of this with several new ideas or with something I’ve been working on entirely replotted.

exploring

Vacation Recovery

I took a short road trip vacation at the beginning of the week. This was my first overnight trip just for fun (not traveling to visit my parents or going to the choir retreat) since I came here three years ago to visit and see if I wanted to move here.

I went to the D.C. area to see Mount Vernon and then do some shopping at stores we don’t have around here. I joked about hitching up the wagon to go to town for supplies because that’s what it feels like. Mount Vernon was fascinating, both the house and the grounds. There was a lot to see and I’m not sure I got to it all because I got a bit overwhelmed and tired after a few hours and realized I was no longer absorbing information, so I decided to call it a day.

I could definitely go for a home in that setting, with the view across the river. It was incredible. It seems that living in a small, old house has given me a different perspective on historic homes. I’ve heard people say that Mount Vernon is surprisingly unimpressive, not much of a mansion because the rooms are so small. But I thought the rooms were a nice size. The house has a ballroom, two parlors, five bedrooms, and a study, which seems big enough. If you’re used to suburban McMansions I guess it wouldn’t seem too big because the ballroom is smaller than your typical McMansion great room and the parlors and dining room are smaller than modern living and dining rooms, but it was big compared to my house. If you’re heating the rooms with fireplaces, you don’t want them to be too big.

The view from the veranda at Mount Vernon. A grassy lawn slopes down to the river, with wooded land across the river. Puffy clouds dot a blue sky.
I don’t care what the house is like if you’ve got a view like this.

I think one other thing that affects perspectives on the house is the fact that it stopped being a residence and became a historic site/tourist attraction in the 1850s, so it was never updated much beyond the way Washington would have lived in it. It never got added onto, never got indoor plumbing (one of the guides talking to the line as we waited to go in told the kids to count the number of bathrooms), and never got an attached kitchen. It’s different from other old houses that have been updated along the way because people have been living in them.

After I got to my hotel, I did an Ikea run, had dinner at a Tex-Mex restaurant that’s part of a chain based in Austin (I ate at the original before it was a chain), so that was the first real Tex-Mex I’ve had since I moved. Then I did a little more shopping, knocking out most of my list. I spent the whole evening reading, no screens and no sound other than the AC fan, which was nice. I did a little more shopping in the morning, then took the back roads home, going through a few Civil War battlefields (not stopping, just looking as I drove) and seeing a lot of nice scenery.

I need to do more trips like this, since it was one of the things on my list of reasons to move. Years ago, I came up with the idea of the perfect restful vacation, one that was a fun getaway that didn’t leave me so exhausted that I’d come home tired and needing a vacation to recover. I figured it would be something close by, under a three-hour or so drive or a very short flight so that the trip home wouldn’t be so exhausting that it undid any benefit from the vacation. There needed to be enough to do and see to make it worthwhile to be there, but not so much that I’d feel like I was missing something if I spent some time just relaxing in the hotel.

The problem was that opportunities were limited for that in Dallas because there wasn’t much worth going to within a three-hour drive, and driving through the Dallas metro area was so harrowing that the last stretch on the way home undid all the vacation benefits, even with a short trip. I was limited to flying, and that’s just not very relaxing. Here, there’s a lot I can do within three hours. I can get to Washington, D.C., and the surrounding area. There’s Richmond, Charlottesville (that’s close enough to be a day trip, but I could get indulgent and book a hotel so I could see and do a lot without having to worry about beating rush hour to get back over the mountain), Williamsburg/Yorktown/Jamestown. I could get to the beach. Or I could go west into the mountains. Or north to Harper’s Ferry.

Surprisingly, the D.C.-area traffic isn’t too bad. I didn’t make it all the way to the Beltway, but the highways in the area are pretty nice, and they’re surrounded by trees. You don’t realize you’re in a city until you exit and get on the surface streets. It’s far easier than driving in Dallas. Then one of the easiest stretches of the trip is the last bit toward home, so I don’t get stressed by the trip home.

This trip didn’t quite work as relaxing, though, possibly because it was only one night away, so I had a lot of driving two days in a row, with a lot of walking (my phone said more than 14,000 steps) on Monday. I think I may need two nights away, at least, to have a little more unwinding and not trying to cram everything in at once. But then that’s two nights in a hotel, and I don’t generally sleep well away from home. I’m spoiled by my bed.

I think my next excursion will be to the Williamsburg/Yorktown/Jamestown area, which will definitely require a few days, or I won’t try to do it all in one trip.

writing life

Post-Book Recovery Time

I finished the first draft of book 6 of the Tales of Rydding Village series this week, and now I’m in recovery mode, when I catch up on the things that weren’t getting done while I was lost in the book. Today was an errand day. It was nice to get out of the house without having to worry about getting home and getting back to writing.

I’m planning to take it semi-easy for the rest of the year — as in, no more deadlines. I’ve drafted three books this year and my brain is tired. Since fall is my favorite time of year, I schedule October as a light month, giving me plenty of time to get out and enjoy fall. I’ll be working on revising one of the books I wrote this year, but a lot of that will be brainstorming. Then I need to revise the book I just wrote. I also want to catch up on admin work and do some promo, as well as getting my fall cleaning done to be ready for the holidays and all the fall work in the yard. That doesn’t really sound like taking it semi-easy, but I’m giving myself fewer quotas and deadlines.

Then I need to think about what I want to work on next year. I have a good idea for the next Rydding Village book and I’ve been playing around with some other ideas I want to develop. I’m hoping to send the book I’m about to revisit to my agent, so a lot of next year’s agenda will depend on how that goes.

For now, though, the leaves are starting to turn, the nights are cool, and we’re having a last burst of warm weather this week before fall really hits next week. I’m going to be taking lots of long walks, doing a lot of baking, and generally reveling in the season. I’ve stocked up on baking supplies, apple cider, and soup ingredients, and the fuzzy socks have come out of storage.

To help with prep for the cozy season, the Cozy the Day Away sale is back. This weekend, Saturday and Sunday the 3rd and 4th, there’s a whole slate of cozy (and cozy-adjacent) fantasy on sale. You can find the sale here (but the link won’t go live until the sale starts).

I’ve put Tea and Empathy on sale. If you haven’t tried this series yet, here’s your chance. Or tell others who might like it. They can try it for less than a dollar. To make it a little more fun, here’s some incentive: A couple of weeks ago, I went to an 80s dance party, and I wore a dress that I actually wore in the 80s when I was in high school. If Tea and Empathy makes it to the top 100 in Amazon’s cozy fantasy category during this sale, I’ll post a picture of current me wearing my high school dress. So tell your friends to buy the book if you want to see me being a dork.