Life
The New Normal
I have decided that June will be back to “normal” routine and establishing a new normal routine that works for my current situation. I’ve been living kind of like in vacation mode during the move, and now that I’m mostly settled in, I need to figure out what normal life will be like here. I can’t spend the days mostly goofing off and occasionally putting something away and call it “moving” anymore. I have been doing some writing work this week, but I need some structure and routine.
That means the weekend will be spent doing the last arranging and organizing. I won’t be entirely done, and there will be some fine tuning, but I want to be where it doesn’t look so much like I’m moving. No boxes or stacks in my main living space. Things I use regularly unpacked and put away.
I also need to get back into an exercise habit. While I was actively moving and hauling boxes around, that sufficed, but now I need to be more deliberate about it. I’m more active in the house than I was in the apartment, since there are stairs and I have work to do in the yard, but I’ve been a bit of a slug in between. I have been walking to church on Sundays, but I need to walk more regularly than that. I can easily walk downtown, and I rather enjoy that on weekday mornings when it’s quiet. There’s also a huge historic cemetery a couple of streets away (that’s the view from one of my office windows when the tree in my front yard isn’t fully leafed out) that’s like a park. It has walking paths and hills. Once I get the last of the boxes cleared out from my spare room, I want to be able to use that as exercise space. I’ll be able to spread out my yoga mat.
I got out of the habit of working in an office while I was in the apartment, so I’m trying to get back to that. I’m typing this at my desk. But this week, my main work has been re-reading a book prior to doing a round of revisions, and I find that my posture gets weird at a desk when I’m just reading, so my back and shoulders hurt. I finally got my den set up this week when my sofa was delivered, and it’s been rainy, so I’ve spent the rainy days sitting on my sofa, reading my book, and looking up to watch it rain. One of the big reasons I decided to buy this house was a vivid mental image of sitting on a sofa in the den and watching it rain, so I decided I needed to do that.

The other routine I need to develop is housework. I’ve been so busy setting up and organizing that I’ve neglected the maintenance work, and I need to figure out what to do and when to do it. I need to also factor in lawn and garden work and schedule time for that. And I need to do more menu planning and get back to cooking. I relied pretty heavily on frozen meals and convenience food during the move. I’ve done some cooking, but I need to plan enough to make sure I have the ingredients, since I tried to use up as much as possible before I moved and now I need to start from scratch in stocking my pantry, especially since I now have a lot more storage space around the kitchen.
I often resist scheduling, but I find it really helps me because it not only means I get stuff done, but it also means I’m more likely to do fun stuff. If I don’t plan and schedule, the whole day can go by, and then I realize that not only did I not do anything productive, but I also didn’t use the time to enjoy myself.
I’m not even the newest person on the street anymore, so I have to get out of “I just moved” mode. While I was moving in, the house on one side of me was being remodeled to sell, and the new buyers closed on it this week. I haven’t met them yet, but I hope they fit into our quirky little street full of artsy and creative types. The neighbor on the other side is a fashion designer/textile artist, and there’s a radio DJ at the end of the street. The person across from me is very counter-culture (in a fun way), and then there’s me, the novelist. Supposedly there’s another writer around the corner, but I haven’t met him yet.
Now I need to unpack a few boxes and set up a couple more bookcases.